Here are Dad's wishes:
Be buried (not cremated)
No fanfare, funeral, or grieving fluff, although a rocking wake was all right with him.
A simple grave marker
Cheapest casket
No one involved except family, if possible
No unnecessary processing of his body after death, but salvage any tissue/organs that can help others
Experience death head-on with awareness; no lingering in the throws of death; a fast exit
No resulting financial burden on the family
His wife and pets be provided for
He leave a meaningful legacy
Before I go on, you should know who we are talking about. My dad is a "lifer" military man. He is stubborn, proud, angry, grumpy and humorous. Recall that he smiled at the sight of his own grave.
Being honest, frank and having a sense of humor would be necessary for your family too. And you might benefit from reading about how it went for us so you will know some of what to expect. If you prefer, you can skip to my resources link and get started on your own funeral and burial adventure right now.
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